Warning Signs & Signals That Considered
Losing Yourself In A Relationship
Be it any relationship,
it wants something, some promises, some dreams, some conditions, some harmony
and change too... Relationships are a kind of beautiful bond... But these bonds
look good only till then. As long as you feel peace and happiness even by
being bound in them, but when this bondage starts to feel like a burden, then
understand that you are bound too much and you are eating yourself to get and
live your relationships And are forgetting to live for themselves. Whenever
such a situation comes, stop once, stop and think, will you be able to move
forward in this way and by how long you will be able to take them forward?
Compromise and change are
also necessary to maintain relationships. You have to change and there is no
harm in it, but while doing this, lest these changes prove to be cumbersome for
you?
If you compromise on
everything from your side, then obviously you are raising the expectations of
the other person.
Suppose, to increase the
life of a relationship, many things have to be compromised on many things, but
you have to compromise on everything, then everyone's expectations increase,
they feel that this work is their responsibility.
But there comes a time
when this one-sided change made by you becomes overwhelming and you regret your
own decision.
It is obvious that women
have to make these changes in most of the cases, due to which the burden of
relationships, work, and responsibilities increases on them, and the expectations
from them also increase.
But often women lose
themselves to get and save their relationships.
- Ignores her health so
much that it only becomes heavy for her in the future.
Even if he himself
becomes ill, then he has to recover quickly just because he starts worrying
about other family members and household chores.
Even after getting sick,
she suffers from the guilt that her family is facing so much trouble due to her
health.
- To what extent is all
this justified? You are not finding relationships, but you are losing yourself,
because the relationship is to be played equally on both sides and the sharing
of responsibilities is also equal, only then the relationship means, otherwise
they are meaningless.
In such a situation, the question arises that what should be done?
- Be clear about your
work and responsibilities from the beginning.
You must show that yes,
you will change, but the other person will have to change as well.
Balance is important in
relationships. Do not change only you, ask your partner and other members also
to support you by adopting a cooperative attitude.
Do not wear all the
responsibilities related to relationships and home yourself.
Make other people realize
their responsibilities as well. Divide the responsibilities. For this, all the
householders make a timetable and follow it.
Do everything and
everything with love, so that no one feels bad, because even with love, a lot
can be done and done.
It would be better if you the first talk to your partner, take them into confidence, they will cooperate and
they will change for you, then it will be easy.
Learn to say no to some things too. If you will make habit of everyone from the beginning that you are ready to compromise on everything, then you will be expected every time.
It would be better to
take time for yourself too. Let your dreams take flight as well. You will be
happy, only then you will be able to work in a better way. If you keep bowing
down on everything, then you will get yourself in trouble.
Pamper yourself. Go to a
movie or dinner with friends. It is not necessary that you go out every time
with your husband or children.
Never prepare food and
order it from outside.
Take full care of your
fitness and beauty too.
If everything is expected
of you, then sometimes it is necessary to break the expectations.
It is for you to decide
that no one takes you casually. Learn to love yourself.
- If you also work all
day, then you also have the right to rest. Decide the weekly off for yourself
and tell the family members too. On that day, either someone else prepares food
or asks for it from outside and everyone should share the responsibility of
working and working for themselves.
It is not necessary that
everyone's wishes should be fulfilled every time. Has it ever happened that
your wishes have been noticed by someone?
Whatever relationships
you have given, do the family members even realize it? If not, then you have to
realize.
Everyone has the
responsibility of maintaining and maintaining relationships, so everyone has to
take responsibility. Why do you keep doing everything except your dreams?
- All these things are
not only for women, but for every member who gives everything to the
relationship, but in return, they are not even appreciated and they are taken
advantage of knowingly or unknowingly. is expected.
Relationship Problems
- As far as you feel comfortable and when the relationship breaks down, there is no harm in compromising or retreating two steps, but if you feel frustrated and suffocated, then think for yourself, there is no harm in it.
- It often happens that
the person who goes on fulfilling the expectations and after a time he wants to
say or do something for himself, then he is called selfish because everyone
starts to feel that it is only for us. Everything should be done, this is its
responsibility, so how can it think for itself?
It would be better not to
raise people's expectations so much before such thinking develops and do not
lose yourself so much that others cannot even find yourself.
Take care of your health
before the health of others, fulfill the dreams of others, but do not suppress
your dreams completely. Do not forget to live, do something for yourself, to
make yourself happy, it will not be selfish, but it will work as a lifesaver to
get relationships and not eat yourself. Your wish ahead.
